When in interpersonal difficulty
Just incase you are having withdrawals, here is another quote from Paul Tripp's A Shelter in the Time of Storm. I love these meditations. In one sense they are quite simple, the sort of thing that on a good day, with some conscious effort, you might articulate yourself. But sometimes you need someone else to remind you of these things.
The fact is that God has us exactly where he wants us. He never manages a poor schedule, and he never gets a wrong address. He places us in interpersonal difficulty because he intends that difficulty to be a workroom of redemption ...
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God has you in the painful moment not simply to reveal himself to you but to grow and change you through it, as well. He has chosen to keep you in this fallen world because he hasn’t finished redeeming you. Sure, you long for the grace of release and the grace of relief, and sometimes you do experience these, but primarily this moment is a moment of refinement. The heat of interpersonal difficulty is meant to purify us, something that each of us continues to need.
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Remember, you are not alone, and what is happening to you isn’t an accident. You are the child of the King of kings, the Creator, the sovereign God, the all-wise and all-loving Saviour. In ways that are hard to grasp, you are being loved. Rest in that love and run to its source, saying no to all those other responses that only add further trouble to the trouble you are already experiencing.